level of perfection
Wednesday, June 10, 2009 @ 11:03 PM
“It is only imperfection that complains of what is imperfect. The more perfect we are, the gentler and quieter we become towards the defects of others.” - Joseph Addison
I went looking for a quote that might reflect my thought on what I was trying to convey all these while. It all started when I encountered my friend's status. It mentioned something like, 'do not complain if one talks bad of you, instead introspect yourself and change'
When I read this quote, my human common sense told me that it is true. But somehow inside me, something was banging on my heart and mind, something was wrong. It was indeed a thought-provoking quote, yet selfish,,, somehow.
Introspecting of self? How many times have we tried to change ourselves, but only finding it to be futile? It is true that we change to improve ourselves. Nevertheless, frequently and undeniably, we wanted to please the other party, and subconsciously long for them to accept us. However, what if the moment you change for one person, another mouth spoke bad of you, criticising your ever-new-attitude?
What exactly is the limit of changing?
When is it ever going to evolve into perfection?
If I had to put it in one word, it would be a "no."
It is never going to stop.
For one could never please everyone.
The key is not to expect others to continuously introspect on their attitudes for changes, but to accept and understand the imperfection of others.
You see, when you start accepting, flaws will slowly conceal itself.
Face it. Comprehend it. Respect it.
Do not expect others to change for you. Do not expect one to change to your preference. But change your attitude, accept and understand that every single human being possesses different personalities, attitudes, and viewpoints toward certain things.
Of course dear thieves, robbers, and murderers, this entry does not entirely apply to you :P
God bless you :)
